Listen. Because listening’s important:
Hi and welcome to the Re-Enchant Your Life reminder.
Your sacred pause in the day where you’re encouraged to take a moment to stop and tune into your inner wisdom and become present, so that you can reconnect to your personal power and confidently embrace who you’re becoming, as you Re-Enchant Your life and create the change you truly desire.
Today you’re being reminded to create a life that feels great.
Choose to create a life that feels great, rather than prioritising a life that looks great.
Create a life that feels great, because it aligns with your values and nourishes you emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually.
Focus more on honouring your feelings, and what you truly want, rather than how it may look to others.
Create a life of substance and meaning for yourself.
It doesn’t matter if it isn’t what’s expected of you.
It doesn’t matter if other people don’t understand the way in which you choose to live your life.
It doesn’t matter if your life looks messy or if it looks glossy.
All that matters is that you create a life that nourishes and nurtures you.
This is your life you need to live it for you.
In this very moment, just pause, and take a breath. As you honour feeling great.
Today’s SHEro Action:
Today’s SHEro action is to notice where you might be making choices that have been prioritising how you look to others, over honouring how you feel.
What choices would you make differently if you were to focus on your feelings and what lights you up?
What changes can you make that nourish you and prioritise how you feel, rather than how you want to be perceived.
Pause, and take a breath. As you get clear on how you can create a life that honours what you want.
Today’s Affirmation:
“I create a life that honours what I want”
I’ll see you tomorrow for your daily reminder to Re-Enchant Your Life with me, Rebecca-Anuwen,
In the meantime, enjoy feeling great on Your SHEro’s Journey!
PostScript
When I first started in private practice 20 years ago, many women came to see me who were deeply unhappy, but they didn’t realise exactly how unhappy, unfulfilled and resentful they had become.
They felt guilty for feeling unhappy, as on the surface they had everything they had been taught to want; relationships, families, careers, nice house, cars and holidays… and yet they were unhappy.
They were unhappy as they were living lives that they thought they should have.
They were living lives that looked superficially good.
They were living lives where their basic needs were met, and they felt guilty for wanting more.
Often the first question they asked, when they realised that they needed to change something, was; but what will my husband, mum, friends etc say.
Not, oh my goodness, I need to make some changes, where do I start…
But instead; ‘what will others think?’
But what if you allowed your feelings to lead you?
What if you said ‘Yes’ to more opportunities that you wanted, and ‘No’ to those that made you feel were a waste of your time?
How would your life be different if you did more of the things that felt good, and less of the things that you thought you should do?
What if you lived a life of potential messiness and imperfection that was lived with your desires front and centre, rather than one that was curated for the gaze of others?
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