Listen. Because listening’s important:
Hi and welcome to the Re-Enchant Your Life reminder.
Your sacred pause in the day where you’re encouraged to take a moment to stop and tune into your inner wisdom and become present, so that you can reconnect to your personal power and confidently embrace who you’re becoming, as you Re-Enchant Your life and create the change you truly desire.
Today you’re being reminded that you are absolutely allowed to take your time, to go slow and move at your own pace.
You’re excited about what you want to do next, but you might not be sure on your next steps.
Give yourself the gift of time and space to really feel into and explore what is right for you.
Don’t let anyone else try and make you decide or take action faster than is comfortable for you.
Take your time to get clear.
Feel into what your current needs are.
Anything that feels pressured or rushed is not the right option for you.
If you feel like making a quicker decision so that you’re accepted or aren’t seen as making a fuss, it’s not the right time for you to make the decision.
Give yourself time so that you can get clear and make the decision from a centred place, a place that supports you and has your best interests at heart.
In this very moment, just pause and take a breath, as you take your time and slow down.
Today’s SHEro Action:
Today’s SHEro action is to strengthen your boundaries and give yourself time and space to think things through.
Think about a decision(s) that you have to make, and then really feel into the outcome would support you the most in your life.
How can you ensure that you have the time and space to make a clear decision, one that has the best outcome for all involved, one that doesn’t compromise your values and boundaries?
Even if someone else is pressuring you for a quicker response, slow down and sink deep into your own knowing, and trust that you have the answers you need.
Pause, and take a breath. As you create space for yourself.
“I give myself the gift of making time and space to make my decisions”
I’ll see you tomorrow for your daily reminder to Re-Enchant Your Life with me, Rebecca-Anuwen,
In the meantime, enjoy slowing down on Your SHEro’s Journey!
When it comes time to make a choice, we can often feel pressured or confused about what to do, or you can change your mind and feel that you can’t commit to anything, but what’s really going on behind the scenes is that we’re trying to fit in, or want to be seen as the ‘good girl’ and do what other people expect of us.
When we give ourselves the gift of time, when we can create a sacred pause and take a moment to get clear on what we want, we allow ourselves to get clear and we can make our decisions from a place of power and clarity, rather than from a place of fear and overwhelm.
It’s worth taking the time to get clear on the decision you make so that you don’t end up spending months regretting your decision or trying to change it.
It’s a fine balance of learning to trust your intuition and making the space so that you can really hear your intuition and then using your intellect and skills of discernment to know what’s truly right for you.
Many times, people have told me that they thought something was the right thing to do because it felt exciting and they felt energised, but then they were puzzled because it didn’t work out for them, they thought the excitement was their intuition guiding them.
But it’s easy to get caught up in the excitement of a decision, to see nothing but the potential and the limitless possibilities that are ahead of us, but feelings of excitement doesn’t always mean it’s the choice that’s right for us
Sometimes, and it took me years to know this to be true for me too, but sometimes it’s the small quiet feeling, the subtle inner-knowing, and less excitement of ‘jazz hands’, decision that’s the right one for us, and that the quiet voice and nudges are our intuition, we just have to get quiet to hear.
It’s important that you learn what’s right for you, and you can do this by slowing down and giving yourself time, even if it’s just a few breaths before you respond.