Listen. Because listening’s important:
Hi and welcome to the Re-Enchant Your Life reminder.
Your sacred pause in the day where you’re encouraged to take a moment to stop and tune into your inner wisdom and become present, so that you can reconnect to your personal power and confidently embrace who you’re becoming, as you Re-Enchant Your life and create the change you truly desire.
Today you’re being reminded to honour and commit to your own values.
It can be easy to move through life doing what think you ‘should’ do.
Following a path that’s expected of you, studying what you think you should study, getting the job you think you should get, deciding if and who you should marry,
Living and doing what other people expect of you.
Living by the standards and dreams of other people’s values whilst ignoring your own.
You’ll never find peace or true joy whilst you’re trying to please other people and doing what is expected from you.
It’s time to reconnect with your values.
Revisit what’s really important to you.
Honour your values.
Commit to yourself and your values.
Your values, not the ones that are honoured by your family or community, not the ones that you think make you a ‘good’ person, but those that are important to you (even if they’re not to other people).
The moment you live by your own values you are free.
In this very moment, just pause and take a breath, as you reconnect with your own values.
Today’s SHEro Action:
Today’s SHEro action is to get clear on your values.
Write a list of all of your values.
Once written, set them aside for at least 24hrs, then revisit the list, do any need to change?
Next take your list and condense it into your top 10 values, then down to your top 5 values.
This is important as it shows what’s really important to you, not just what you’d like.
Review how much you honour your top five values in the key areas throughout your life.
Then make the required changes in your life so that you come into greater alignment with these values.
Pause, and take a breath. As you honour the truth of who you are.
Today’s Affirmation:
“I commit to living a life in alignment with my truth”
I’ll see you tomorrow for your daily reminder to Re-Enchant Your Life with me, Rebecca-Anuwen,
In the meantime, enjoy honouring your values!
PostScript
One of the reasons that I encourage people to look at their values is they give us a valuable anchor to connect with.
When you feel lost or confused and not sure what to do next, you can run decisions and actions through your value filter to get yourself back on track.
I had a member of my community ask for some help as she was having trouble deciding what action to take next, should she say ‘yes’ to an opportunity or not.
She knew that on paper it was a good opportunity, but she still wasn’t sure. Talking herself in and out of the opportunity.
I asked if her it fulfilled her top values, did it align with what was really important to her.
Once she could run it through this filter, she knew what she needed to do.
Having this filter allowed her to make a clear decision quickly and with confidence and ease.
